Enmeshment and Absence of Desire

Enmeshment and Absence of Desire

If you are in a long-term committed relationship and you are intertwined in your partners life – this may be a sign of enmeshment. A major killer of libido for men and women – especially women. Yes, you have separate jobs, but at the end of the day the two of you live, eat, breathe EACH OTHER. This creates a lack of healthy distance in the relationship where there is no room for desire to bloom.